A shemale ([info]shemale) wrote,
@ 2008-07-16 13:35:00
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god i can almost hear the squealing, whining noises of the commentators/OP in this post.

*GASP* You mean trans men don't like to be called "ladies?"
This is madness!

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You Devil!
[info]freeko
2008-07-16 05:39 pm UTC (link)
Oh Dear! You just can't avoid drama.

*LMAO*

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[info]kicey
2008-07-16 05:41 pm UTC (link)
omg being inclusive is too harrrrd

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[info]tgies
2008-07-16 05:42 pm UTC (link)
lmaolmao <3

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[info]freeko
2008-07-16 05:46 pm UTC (link)
That is funny!

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[info]kicey
2008-07-16 07:35 pm UTC (link)
lol i luv shemale

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[info]_stasha
2008-07-16 05:48 pm UTC (link)
I'm not sure why they wouldn't want to be called a lady. Isn't that what they are going for with the whole vagina thing and all that?

What are you then if you're a FTM, if you're not aiming to be female? I always assumed 'lady', 'woman' and 'female' were synonymous. Are they not now?

I understand that trans issues are complicated and mainstream society isn't at a point where these terms are in the vernacular, but like.. 'female to male' is pretty self explanatory.

Also I don't get how people can "D:" over Buck Angel. I've spent many nights watching his videos and.. knitting.

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[info]shemale
2008-07-16 05:53 pm UTC (link)
oh man had to respond

lol knitting.

me too. i have made many mittens.

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(no subject) - [info]_stasha, 2008-07-16 08:28 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]tgies, 2008-07-16 06:11 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]newdance, 2008-07-16 06:50 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]nanaki_muyo, 2008-07-16 07:21 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]queer_kitten, 2008-07-16 08:03 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]shemale, 2008-07-16 08:05 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]nanaki_muyo, 2008-07-16 07:19 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]lazywriterbum, 2008-07-17 01:21 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]notacrnflkgirl, 2008-07-17 10:15 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]kittenmommy, 2008-08-08 07:31 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]kittenmommy, 2008-08-08 07:28 pm UTC

[info]theweaselking
2008-07-16 05:52 pm UTC (link)
Stupid terminology question time!

"Trans man" refers to someone transitioning *to* male, not *from* male, right? This would make sense, given that they are now "he" and "him" and use other male terms.

And vice versa for "trans woman" - they're going MTF?

I'm having a bad brain day, on this one.

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[info]shemale
2008-07-16 05:53 pm UTC (link)
yeah that's right :)

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(no subject) - [info]theweaselking, 2008-07-16 05:57 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]kittenmommy, 2008-08-08 07:32 pm UTC

[info]dmlaenker
2008-07-16 05:54 pm UTC (link)
lol @ faux-indignation. I felt like I was reading dot.pagan.snark again.

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[info]apis_cerana
2008-07-16 05:57 pm UTC (link)
Lol @ [info]kandi_panties.

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[info]hardvice
2008-07-16 06:08 pm UTC (link)
BUT DON'T YOU REALIZE? THE MAJORITY OF PEOPLE WITH VAGINAS ARE LADIES, SO IT'S OK!

I'm going to start all of my posts from now on with "What up, lactose intolerants?" THE MAJORITY OF PEOPLE ON EARTH ARE LACTOSE INTOLERANT, SO IT'S OK.

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[info]razor_zedge
2008-07-16 06:25 pm UTC (link)
"What's the big deal?"

"Not all people with vaginas are "ladies" or class themselves as female. Therefore they might not appreciate the greeting"

I do not understand why the discussion could not end with that.

Also I hate that "bigger battles" bullshit. The existence of larger issues does not automatically undo the validity of a particular concern. This is especially true if the concern can be readily fixed (or ameliorated at least somewhat).

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[info]newdance
2008-07-16 06:41 pm UTC (link)
Can I still be allowed to have no interest in joining that community? Please, I would like to know that I'm still totally allowed to only call my doctor when my cooz starts dripping something funky, and thus allowed to abstain from a community I have zero interest in joining because a) gathering medical info off the 'net is a pin-headed thing to do (so sayeth the guy on Medicare), b) the state of my genitals is NOT the business of the Internet, and c) my "clitdick" (to use Grody Tranny-Chaser™ Speak) is, in fact, twice as long as my attention span — ooh! shiny!

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[info]shemale
2008-07-16 06:44 pm UTC (link)
no, you have to join

it is the law

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(no subject) - [info]newdance, 2008-07-16 06:53 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]shemale, 2008-07-16 07:02 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]shemale, 2008-07-16 07:05 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]kittenmommy, 2008-08-08 07:34 pm UTC

[info]meleth
2008-07-16 07:16 pm UTC (link)
*cries*

Okay, really, how hard is it to accept that a safe-space community might want to actually try acknowledging the existence of ALL of their members?

And boo-fucking-hoo at all the whining from SF-ers on being called on their language. I don't think it helps though to counter that jarring reaction by jumping on the offended wagon and beating her into a bloody pulp. That's really not going to do anything but get her pissed off anyway. Yeah, the right of majority to never be offended doesn't really outweigh the right of the minority to be acknowledged as human beings.

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[info]heinousbitca
2008-07-16 07:24 pm UTC (link)
but safe space means you have to acknowledge my bigoted views as okay because i'm working on my shit! i'm very threatened by all these new things! don't you *want* me as an ally?

ooh shit i seem to have dribbled sarcasm all over the floor. gotta work on those sarcasm kegels, it helps ya hold it in better.

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(no subject) - [info]meleth, 2008-07-16 07:28 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]heinousbitca, 2008-07-16 07:31 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]meleth, 2008-07-16 07:34 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]heinousbitca, 2008-07-16 07:42 pm UTC
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[info]lost_angelwings
2008-07-16 08:10 pm UTC (link)
*headdesk*

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[info]jame_alec
2008-07-16 09:04 pm UTC (link)
This happened last time vagpag made a "Hey not everyone with a vagina is a woman and not everyone woman has a vagina" post, too. I think sf_drama is where the real stupid lives.

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[info]jame_alec
2008-07-16 09:23 pm UTC (link)
Also, I really shouldn't have read the comments in that post. D: My pain meds + harbl pain + period make me all hyper emotional and shit.

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[info]dragonblink
2008-07-16 09:47 pm UTC (link)
I just cannot grasp how someone cannot understand that you do NOT refer to a human being, especially one past the "looks like an alien" stage of infancy, as "it". I don't care what kind of "hi-larious" tranny panic you got on the scrolldown, you don't call someone an "it" and then act like it was a totally understandable thing for you to do when other people call you on it.

One time, for a paper, I was exploring language use in different online communities. To get a wide range of communities, one of the ones I looked at was a well-known white-power kind of place. I had expected to see the N word thrown around, and it was. But when I got to a thread that consistently referred to an African-American as "it", it upset me so much I nearly vomited. I threw out that portion of my notes and went back to a less revolting part of the Internet.

English is a flexible language. If you don't know what pronouns a person prefers, there are MANY ways to get around that. There's no need to resort to freakin' "it".

PS Buck Angel is TOTALLY hot.

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[info]meleth
2008-07-16 11:46 pm UTC (link)
Oh god, that whole thread was SO HORRIBLE. I hate that person. [info]hungryandhollow, too, but mostly whatsherface.

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yes, he is... totally hot! - [info]chinaski, 2008-07-17 03:06 am UTC

[info]notacrnflkgirl
2008-07-16 11:18 pm UTC (link)
Transphobia 101, FFS.

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[info]notacrnflkgirl
2008-07-16 11:20 pm UTC (link)
[info]bajingo srsly needs to STFU.

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[info]lazywriterbum
2008-07-17 01:25 pm UTC (link)
I think she might be my e-enemy, but I can't remember so I'll just agree anyway.

I feel sorry for anyone who has to fuck her, you know, how she feels sorry for people who've fucked Chyna, only with less dehumanising commentary.

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(no subject) - [info]notacrnflkgirl, 2008-07-18 04:56 pm UTC

[info]syndetic
2008-07-16 11:31 pm UTC (link)
UGH THAT THREAD MAKES ME SO FULL OF HATE AARGH AARGH OVERLOAD GRRR

I guess I'm just an oversensitive trans lady guy!

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[info]meleth
2008-07-16 11:48 pm UTC (link)
Madness? THIS! IS! ELJAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!!!!!!!!!!!

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[info]recommendation
2008-07-17 04:17 am UTC (link)
comment expressing my outrage.

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[info]_dear_mariah
2008-07-17 04:19 am UTC (link)
Yeah, I saw that post at work and was just waiting for you to make a post about here. I was also lucky enough that I was working in the data base with several windows up that blocked most of Buck Angel and I recognized his forehead in time. :o

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[info]lazywriterbum
2008-07-17 01:19 pm UTC (link)
This thread pisses me off the most:
http://community.livejournal.com/sf_drama/1212390.html?thread=119744742#t119744742

EDIT: It isn't often I find myself enjoying [info]armchairshrink's comments.

I rly can't believe gothicaliev how tf ever you spell it is that stupid.

NO ONE LIKES TO BE CALLED IT, EXCEPT IN FETISHES!!!!!!!!!!!

Edited at 2008-07-17 01:34 pm UTC

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[info]lazywriterbum
2008-07-17 01:47 pm UTC (link)
[info]molotovlj: Honestly the concept of a "safe space" just rubs me the wrong way.

Five bucks says he's a straight white cisgendered male. y/y?

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[info]shemale
2008-07-17 02:40 pm UTC (link)
n, he's a straight cisgender man, but not white

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